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“It is in the face of unspeakable adversity that you have a choice to rise or fall. Sometimes those decisions are unconscious, leading you on a path to heal the wounds of your past so wisdom can prevail.
It is here you will find yourself, gifting you the courage to forgive and the undeniable will to survive. It is then that you realise to merely exist is not an option, and it is here that you immerse yourself in the healing power of love, so you have the unfathomable grace to live:-

The Accidental Sl*t.”

Author, writer, Speaker, A failed feminist and free spirited oracle...

Hello Beautiful Soul,

I am an Internationally Published Author of three diverse books and a fourth on the way.  The conversations, musings and offerings are to assist those looking to open themselves up to new perceptions and beliefs around 

LOVE, SEX, LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS.

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the accidental sl*t

A Story of Sex, Abuse and Self Discovery;
A path to spiritual freedom and sexual liberation!

There is no doubt MEL COOPER, a Relationship Counsellor and Coach, Sex Educator, Ordained Minister and former Adult Industry worker has lived a life less ordinary. Her life of unexpected dualities shines a light on the many subconscious dogmas we carry with us everyday. Mel has lived many lifetimes at once, where the judgment, bullying and assaults inflicted on her as a child and young woman, led to a lifelong quest to find out what it means to love and be loved; where being the subject of evolving endless labels and resulting lack of self-respect has led to an entrenched inner belief and strength. You will laugh, cry and also be shocked by what you read, but that's the entire point - it's time to see yourself in these experiences, to become aware of how your inner beliefs are impacting on your view of the world and the people in it. Life changing traumatic events that led an already lost and confused girl down some dark paths and others that were unexpectedly fulfilling, she was trying to find herself in a world where society didn't understand or accept her. Rising victorious to full acceptance of who she is as a woman, mother, sister and friend!
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We will launch the crowdfunding campaign for The Accidental Sl*t, inviting you to pre-order your copy of this exciting creation – including copies that Mel has personalised and signed herself. Once we hit our funding goal we will proceed with the other developmental steps, this is your chance to help bring this life changing book to fruition and be a part of something truly special. To find out more details about the crowd funding and what is involved please click on the link below.

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De-PROGRAMMING THE STIGMA -
SEX, LIES AND PERCEPTIONS

SACRED MENOPAUSE

WHY WOMEN CLOSE THEIR LEGS AND MEN HAVE AFFAIRS